b75791a6db25 scripts/update-cmd.pl: reorder add/remove calls to better deal with dynamic changes
c29e1ad045d0 scripts/update-cmd.pl: set device up before adding routes/addresses
5ad35ce4beea scripts/update-cmd.pl: run update two times
5d79b88f00c1 add support for overriding peer-exchange-port for individual hosts
0041fcacb624 add support for disabling VXLAN/eBPF support
Signed-off-by: Felix Fietkau <nbd@nbd.name>